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The following is a story all too familiar in the internet network marketing world and while attraction marketing is a concept which has now been with us for some time, it seems there is a mountain of work to do to swing most MLMers around to the concept.

It's a syndrome called desperate marketer and it is so obvious and rarely gets any results that's it's a wonder why people just don't wake up to the fact that by coming at a prospect like a "bull at a gate" just serves to drive them away.

Ann Sieg made some startling observations in her hard hitting report The 7 Great Lies Of Network Marketing and a lot of the points she raised all lead to the desperate marketer syndrome. The concept of attraction marketing followed by strong pre-sell tactics all designed to gain the prospect's trust before the sales pitch, if it's in fact required, needs to be really understood.

My Brush With A Desperate Marketer

Now I'm the first to admit I was as desperate as anyone when I first ventured into internet network marketing and it took a lot of focused training to get my mindset in the right place. I was recently contacted by who I thought was a prospect and here's how the call went.

The prospect wanted to know a little more about the renegade system and I'm always happy to give some time when I have it and I was looking forward to also coaching this person a little.

But here’s the thing…within one minute of the conversation starting this fellow launched into a full blown sales pitch about his network marketing opportunity. He spoke about how great his company is, how life changing the products are and I should stop wasting my time studying systems like Ann Sieg’s Renegade.

I was taken aback. It caught me completely by surprise although it’s happened before on a smaller scale. So I listened…and listened…and listened. I had some time and just wanted to see how far he would go. When he finished by asking me for my mailing address so he could send me more information I simply told him you’ve just answered your own question about why I studied books like the Renegade Network Marketer.

I then asked him if he understood the concept of attraction marketing and more importantly, pre-selling. He refused to want to hear what I had to say so the conversation was cut short. I knew about his company and yes, their products are good but I was not looking for a networking opportunity.

You see, attraction marketing is all about putting your offer, whether it’s network marketing, internet marketing or just about any business opportunity in front of a hungry crowd who is ready to receive your message. Your prospects will be more targeted and more receptive to what you will have to say.

What I got was another desperate marketer who put himself first and the prospect second. At no stage did he want to know what my goals were or how I wanted to reach them. I turned off mentally in the first 20 seconds but thought he needed some practice with his sales pitch and that’s why I let him go on.

And every time I get this approach, listening to it just gives me more confidence that I’m on the right path with systems like the Renegade Network Marketer. How about you?

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